Interesting point. My impression is telecommuting isn't really much of a factor - not many people, not many days, usually give it up before long. I wouldn't expect the changes in freight delivery to have much impact since trucks are a small fraction of total miles. The lines definitely look a little different in the last decade. However, one can also argue the era after 1991 or so is a long period with no oil shocks, and that might have to do with it. Not saying you're wrong, but hard to tell.

It seems useful to investigate aviation - it's transactions and economic activity, but removes the land use factors that seem like they'd come into play a lot in the highway mileage.

We switched from direct flight to hub and spoke systems and milage went up for air flights. We could switch back if jet fuel prices went up again. More aircraft, more crew, more routes, less time in the air, at higher ticket prices.
Good point.