Welcome back Bob.

I have friends who have endured similar pain--and I do not envy any of you the means of gaining your strength back.

Altruistic--it's a funny word. So many people think of it as meaning "sucker." I rather think of it as meaning "concerned and helpful."

But then again, maybe I am just a sucker. Where's Nietzsche when I need him? :)

Where's Nietzsche when I need him?

He was hugging a horse the last I heard about him.

indeed, even if he did go to the nuthouse for a few years following the incident I imagine he still thought a lot about his embrace.

From Daybreak:

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Not enough! - It is not enough to prove something, one has also to seduce or elevate people to it. That is why the man of knowledge should learn how to speak his wisdom: and often in such a way that it sounds like folly!

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Without vanity. - Passionate people think little of what others are thinking: the condition they are in raises them above vanity.