FWIW, Kurzweil does address the Fermi paradox by saying that "well, since a post-singularity civilisation would be easily visible to our current SETI efforts, there cannot be any civilisations which have reached a singularity at any point where electromagnetic waves from them would have reached us by now". I'm not convinced by this argument but it's not something he hasn't thought about.

Sorry guy we gave up on electromagnetics about the time your planet was just a hot rock. We use things like Twerp now, you know we use instantaneous telepathy to take over some twerp like this Crystal Radio and have his fingers do the talking. Greetings to you, Oh brain dead ones, about to die off!

but where is all the in between guys who are not quite at singularity yet? for this sublime alien thing to be true either they all jump to this sublime position OR they are very very very few.... perhaps none!

we should see a spectrum of guys out there on different parts of this curve?

Boris
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