So if I grind up a good quality coal and put it into my soil, is that "terra preta"?

I don't know. It depends on your belief system. I incline to the beleif that 'good quality' is not an appropriate modifier for 'coal', but I'm undecided as to whether 'terra preta' is 'good quality' whatever. ;-)

Coal is loaded with toxins. Mixing either coal or coal ash with soil will just terribly pollute the soil.