I often wonder how things will work out if PO hits and we try to maintain the current economic structures. If most oil goes to transportation then people will either have to bed down in their offices etc. and not drive back home every single day or there will be a run on hotel beds and the opening up of very basic hotel-like facilities. If families have two parents working then one may have to stay in town all week whilst the other looks after the kids.
One thing though...it will be madness if we continue the throwaway society for much longer....things built need to last because the cost of replacing them could be so much greater in the future. This point really pisses me off because the microturbines on sale right now have only a 20 year guaranteed life...we need century long lifespans. Does anyone think (or is it obvious) that the 19th century form of capitalism focussed a lot more on competing on quality but now things have changed and we're producing a lot more throwaway, lasts a day crap? I can't seem to get a videoplayer that can last a year and cars seem a lot more fragile in every way than previously. Bah humbug.

Some people will be able to telecommute or carpool.  They might have to either move closer to work or change jobs.  You might start to see a lot more motorcycles on the road.

For people living way out in the boondocks, you may be right about someone having to live in the city during the week.  Maybe a studio apartment - a hotel would be too expensive.  Heck even a 2-bedroom apartment and a roommate would work.

In the end, these are all short-term coping mechanisms.

I got an email from someone at work this week pointing people at gasbuddy.com.  This is from the guy who drives the Navigator, and his commute is only 5 miles or so.  Yeah, be my guest - go and try and find your cheap gas.

I already live in the city during the week and return to my home on weekends.  I don't think I'm alone.  Fortunately, I can stay with family in the area where I work.  

I've noticed more motorcycles and scooters.  I used to ride a moped, then a small motorbike.  Even before cell phones, enough auto drivers didn't notice me that I sold the motorbike.

Sounds like you are too young to remember the 60s. Back then engines with over 50,000 miles on them were one step away from the scrap yard. Tires needed replacement at least twice a year. Spark plugs needed replacement along with ignition points every year. Oil had to be added at nearly every fillup. I bragged about getting 20mpg from my VW. Overall even the cheapest cars now last longer than the most expensive did then. VCRs weren't even imagined and a remote control meant telling one of the kids to change the channel. We didn't have to say which channel since we only could get two.
On the other hand outside of the use of semiconductors and better materials there really isn't anything in new car engines that wasn't used in WWII airplane engines. B-17s had turbochargers and B-29s had electronic fuel injection. All airplane engines used aluminum alloys while many cars are still stuck in the iron age.  Hemi heads and 4 valve cylinders were racing around Indy back in the 30s. Duesenbergs had double overhead cams when most cars were still using flatheads. Automatic transmission are mechaniclly the same as those developed in the 30s and used by Sherman tanks in WWII. The only mechanical innovation since the 50s is the Wankel.