This line always interested me: "an exporter can only export what is left after domestic consumption is satisfied"

I've always thought about the idea of fungibility when you make this point about the exporters. An pure economist would say that as world market prices go higher, less will be consumed internally and countries will shift more of their production to export. The problem is that these are exactly the countries that subsidize their domestic consumption significantly. If they stop doing that, they will have to deal with domestic political/economic problems which for any politician/ruler, elected or not, is not something easily offset by more export income. I'll write longer about this when I can collect my thoughts and find the hard data, but this seems a critical point. In fact, ultimately it means that higher prices will result in less and less fungibility of oil exports over time. I can almost envision an oil/refined product smuggling market as the differential between domestic prices and world prices widens.

The two obvious case histories to study are the UK and Indonesia.  The common connection is that both have or will become net importers (the UK is there now or very, very close).  

Indonesia subidizes (or use to subsidize) product prices.  The UK taxed products pretty heavily.  

It would be very interesting to plot their oil produciton, consumption and net exports for the past 10 years or so.

You might also add the US to the list.  

In any case, I suspect that net exports are going to fall a hell of a lot faster than most of us think.