I'm going to weigh in on the elec vs. gas debate here.
I've recently bought a house which has no gas connection.  Due to the insane capital cost of connecting to the gas main (just outside in the street) plus installing Gas central heating we're quite happy to run all electric heating/cooking.  Plus we've recently added air conditioning as south west England gets quite hot these days.

First I'd like to take to task all those that wish to remove the so-called perverse pricing incentives for increased consumption.  We have cheaper electricity at certain times of the day and night to allow us to economically run off peak heating systems in the winter and air con during the summer.  This is simply demand led pricing, we get cheaper power off peak because the power companies are trying to stimulate demand (or push some of the variable demand to off peak times eg washing machines/tumble driers).
In our situation we certainly don't get cheaper power if magically double our consumption.  The cost benefits are there to incentivise us to help balance the load on the grid and allow us to heat our home affordably.  Even at 4.5p/kWh the power co are still making money.  
The suggestion of allowing each house cheap power up to a certain value for heating/cooking lighting and then increased power thereafter has merit, but who gets to decide what a reasonable level is.  It would vary massively for different values of insulation/efficiency.  Lets not forget that here in the UK we're cursed with a huge amount of 100+ year old housing stock, which isn't about to disappear anytime soon.  Laughably much of our very recent housing stock is just as inefficient as the stuff built just pre and post WW2.   I should know, my house is but 20 years old and is draughtier and less well insulated than my parents 1930's semi detached.  Where I live it seems modern housing is built down to a price, not up to a standard.

So how do you decide what is required for a given house for its base load heating/cooking.  What about size?  Would you get a bigger allowance for more sq meters?  You'd certainly need it for a large family home vs. a small starter flat.

The whole scheme is just ripe for political interference, with extra "base" allowance being granted if you're "poor", on benefits, an asylum seeker, labour voter etc etc.  Soon those who can be squeezed for extra cash will end up subsidizing those voted in a certain way.  Don't think this will happen?  It already is with council tax.  More central govt. cash making its way to "favoured" areas, with other areas having to increase council tax to cover costs.  Unsurprisingly favoured areas happen to be mainly Labour controlled.  I would not be surprised in the slightest if the opposite happened under a Conservative govt.  Both sides are as bad as each other.

No, if anything the energy markets should remain free of this kind of political interference.  Price should be set by the open market.  The Govt. role should be limited to long term strategic policy making to encourage efficiency and encourage new gen. capacity to be built in a way which will not leave the UK venerable either economically or socially.  We will not be able to compete with other economies in the next 30 to 50 years if we make the wrong decisions now.  Further power outages will make UK plc a very unattractive place for business if allowed to occur, so to say that we will have to curb demand is slightly naive.  Sure, efficiency can help, but to expect industry to simply switch off to help reduce carbon emissions/reduce fuel consumption is not going to happen.  Industry will simply relocate elsewhere.

If we're not careful that elsewhere will be France, with its nice stable nuclear capacity.

Your points about peak and off-peak are different to the perverse system we have now where the first few kWh are charged at a higher rate than the subsequent ones (resulting in a gradual reduction in average cost per kWh the more you use).  I think peak and off-peak differential charging is a really good thing and in a perfect world we would have smart meters working on the principal of continually varied price based on instantaneous network load.  Two points, one perverse one sensible.

We will not be able to compete with other economies in the next 30 to 50 years if we make the wrong decisions now.  Further power outages will make UK plc a very unattractive place for business if allowed to occur, so to say that we will have to curb demand is slightly naive.

I don't quite understand your point here, you say we can't accept power outages but also say we can't try and curb demand?  How does that sit with the reality of the depleting North Sea, a worn out nuclear fleet and unacceptable CO2 emissions from coal?  What are your energy and economic expectations over the 30 to 50 year timescale?

It can be argued that the 'free market' is what got the UK into the current mess - witness the fiasco over electricity prices a couple of years back which almost got the UK nuclear generation fleet shut down, and left the taxpaper to bail out Britsh Nuclear... again.   As you say France has a stable nuclear component - which was of course put there under the control of the state !

Agreed on the scope for political interference in taxation - however, a unit pricing system based on 'later units cost more' could be easily instituted and surely sends the right market signal.

I understand your frustrations, but the post seems more in the nature of a whinge, rather than containing any usable suggestions.  The crunch is coming, it will be real, and it is based on a combination of real physical shortage and price. It will not be wished away and will require a demand side response.  In the Free Market I believe this is called 'Demand Destruction' and the extreme manifestation is people (usually those least able to pay) 'freezing in the dark'.... surely not what you are advocating?